
I was feeling homesick when I wrote this poem. It is a strange thing to say, considering I have lived away from my “hometown” for more than 6 years now. But for me, when I think of the word “home”, it still means Didsbury – the small Alberta town that I grew up in. So, as I missed my old home, I imagined myself travelling all those miles from the coast of B.C. to the prairies of Alberta. It is a beautiful drive – well worth the trip even if you’re not heading towards family. But it is just that much more beautiful to me as it takes me closer to a place that is full of memories and people who I care about.
Where is home for you? What is it that makes a place a home anyway? Personally, I have found that “home” is not necessarily a place as much as it is the people who are there. But for those of you who are lucky enough to still have a connection to your childhood home, perhaps that is the place that you think of. For me, “home” is a complicated mixture of people and memories created over many years. Sometimes I wonder if the place I live in now will ever truly feel like home to me. Together, my husband and I have a big extended family who we have shared many happy moments with. We have friends that we’ve known so long that they have become family. This poem was written with fond memories of them and the “homes” that we have shared. It is less about a specific house and more about the memories accumulated over time. For I have found that over time, all those things that were once familiar and ordinary have become so much more in my memory.
Long Road Home By Krista Longeway A long ribbon of highway Stretching from here to there. Climbing over snow topped mountains And through small villages Clinging to the side of steep slopes, Winding through pine forests That flow into the foothills And gradually level out Until we’re driving across the plains. Past field after field Of grains and pastures. A patchwork of colours Separated by gravel roads And mismatched fences. Through sunny clusters of poplars That whisper in the wind. Past farms and dugouts Where cattle lounge lazily in the sun. And beyond the creek Where the crickets sing at night. Just a few more miles Then… Home With open arms I run to greet this place, Full to the brim with happy memories. Warm smells from the oven Waft through an open window, Lacy curtains fluttering at the sill. Past a lush garden, tended with care, Past the apple tree, heavy with fruit ready to be picked. Ordinary moments from my everyday life Turned beautiful and extraordinary By time and distance. How many times have my feet walked this path, Yet today it is new and marvelous. This is what it means To belong to a place, To a home, To a family.
Oh, Krista, you write so well! Thank you for sharing your well chosen, beautiful words and phrases.
Thank you Myrna! I’m so happy to know that you read it and enjoyed it!
This poem captures the feelings I also have returning to Didsbury and also to Calgary. Now-a-days, as we return far less often, there is a feeling of melancholy and sadness for friends lost and places changed.
Yes, there is both melancholy and joy in these travels for me also.