Finding Centre

by | Jan 21, 2023

Sometimes, my thoughts are filled with storms… worries and anxieties that may or may not come to pass… ruminations of past events that I wish had gone differently… and I wonder if it will ever feel quite right again.  But I have now learned to intentionally stop these thoughts in their tracks.  I tell myself to stop…just stop thinking completely… be still for a moment… and in place of the thinking, open up my senses and notice the world around me.  I mean really notice the myriad of tiny details that we completely overlook most of the time.  I find this is most easily done outside, but it could be done anywhere. 

I look at the leaves on my rose bush outside my front window… the tiny veins, weaving intricate patterns across the surface, the serrated edges, and way the sun shines through the leaf at just the right angle so that it is nearly transparent.  I notice the pattern of the spider’s web nearby.  Each tiny strand, delicately woven together to form a unique design that is different from any other … I notice the bee buzzing nearby, bouncing from one flower to the next… I listen to the sounds around me, the soft sound of the wind in the leaves, the call of the bird nearby… I focus on how the sun feels on my face when I close my eyes…

When it’s raining, I watch the way the droplets slowly form on my window, gradually growing fatter until they run down the pane and disappear.  I focus on the sound of the drops as they patter against the window and fall into the puddles, leaving tiny ripples in the water below.  I watch the clouds and notice the smell of damp earth.

And as I do this, I breathe… very intentionally… very deeply.  I breathe in the smells and sights and sounds around me and breathe out all the worry and fears that were milling about my thoughts.  I visualize these thoughts leaving my body as the beauty around me cleanses me from the inside out.

By stopping and focusing mindfully on these tiny details, I am no longer focusing on the fears and worries in my mind.  For that moment, I am in another world entirely, filled with gratitude and wonder at the beauty that surrounds me. And often, this is enough to chase away my ruminations and put me on a more positive path. 

So what do you do when you can’t step outside into your garden to practice mindfulness?  When you’re in the moment… in traffic, at work, listening to your children fuss by your side? … Remember, you can still breathe deeply… you can still visualize these things in your mind… you can still remember what the sun felt like on your face… By practicing mindfulness in the quiet moments, you can train your brain to recall these peaceful moments in times of stress.  This takes time and practice.  You are training your brain.  But each time you do this, it becomes a little easier the next time.

Centre
-By Krista Longeway

Rolling thunder.
Pounding rain.
Relentless winds that toss me to and fro.

I take a breath
and retreat 
to a place of calm
sheltered from the storms of life.

I am here by the stream,
with waters gently flowing past,
trickling over rocks
smooth and rounded
by the gentle movement 
of water 
and time.

In this place, there is no time.
Only stillness,
and the soft sound of the breeze
rustling the leaves on the trees.
Their whispering 
interrupted only by the cheerful call of birds 
hidden in the trees overhead.

A single leaf 
falls from above,
settling onto the water’s surface
and lazily floats downstream,
disappearing into the distance.
I sit by the water’s edge
on a large, smooth stone,
and dip my fingers into the cool water.
And the waters flow
gently by.

I take a breath
and I am here,
in peaceful solitude.
All else disappears
and I am left 
with only this place,
this moment in time.
A lasting image
of stillness and calm.

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